Anatomy of Peace

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What if conflicts at home, conflicts at work, and conflicts in the world
stem from the same root cause? And what if individually and collectively
we systematically misunderstand that cuase, and unwittingly perpetuate
the very problems we think we are trying to solve?

Through an intriguing story of parents struggling with their troubled
children and with their own personal problems, The Anatomy of Peace
shows how to get past the preconceived ideas and self-justifying
reactions that keep us from seeing the world clearly and dealing with it
effectively. Yusuf al-Falah, an Arab, and Avi Rozen, a Jew, each lost his
father at the hands of the other's ethnic cousins. As the story unfolds,
we discover how they came together, how they help warring parents and
children to come together, and how we too can find our way out of the
struggles that weigh us down. The choice between peace and war lies within
us. As one of the characters says, "A solution to the inner war solves the
outer war as well." This book offers more than hope — it shows how we can
prevent the conflicts that cause so much pain in our lives and in the world.