Most Gay EXJW have faced stigma and hardship more than the rest of us.
Homosexuality is considered a choice by JWs and they are mostly told to be celibate if they are attracted to the same sex.
I have had these titles recommended to me from Gay EXJW's which they have found helpful and hopefully will be a start for you too.
The Joy Of Gay Sex
Inside & Outcast Mulitfaceted Stigma in the lives of Gay & Lesbian JWs - pdf
and a movie:
Prayers for Bobby - imdb [http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1073510/?ref_=nv_sr_1]
True story of Mary Griffith, gay rights crusader, whose teenage son committed suicide due to her religious intolerance. Based on the book of the same title by Leroy F Aarons.
I couldn't get the book so this was the next best thing....warning: very emotional
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